1st tips before fly to South Korea

Salam sejahtera to all my lovely fans... i will share my 1st tips bout my preparation before going to Seoul, South Korea. Actually, already 3 months before 😅. Im so excited to be there and of coz our friends also 😂

When i already booked Air Asia ticket last 4 month, its going to be a bit hard time for me to study a lot bout Korea. Yeah.. for me, its very difficult becoz this gonna be my 1st trip going outside Asean country (since my last trip 2014 after i finishd my mission to all ASEAN Country) and Korea is really shining among others country in this world 😆

As Malaysian people ramai yang dah pergi Seoul, its really easy for me to make as my reference. Thanks to all my friends thats shared a lot bout Korea. Its make me more excited to be there also. A lot of story and info i can get from there.

For today, i will shared some tips whats is very important for you to be prepared before going to Seoul, South Korea.

1st ofcoz you have to make a lot of review from any blogger becoz from my study, a lot of tips i can get from there. May be some others just shared a bit and may be otherelse a lot of tips for you. Depend how long you going to be in Seoul. So, you can make your own iteaneary by there tips rite.. as me, its going to be a short trip becoz just going from tuesday and back on friday. I have to plan more properly so i will not miss any attraction place there 😅

So. My 1st tips is make a lot of revision from others blog and its really help 😆

Nah.. bukti my reference yang berlambak 😥

Muhasabah diri 😢

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Kita sering mempersoalkan betapa teruknya kehidupan kita. Namun, bila kita fikir kembali, sebenarnya di dunia ini kita masih jauh lebih bernasib baik dari yang lain. Tuhan uji kita supaya kita sentiasa sedar akan diri kita ini siapa. Ya, supaya kita tidak leka yang dunia ini cuma pinjamanNya.

Ya Allah.... terima kasih kerana terus meminjamkan nyawa di dunia ini untuk makhluk kerdil-Mu ini menikmati dunia yang penuh pancaroba ini. Moga hari mendatang bakal lebih mematangkan diri kita untuk terus melangkah ke depan dan tidak gentar mengharungi setiap ujian yang mendatang.

Terus mengorak melangkah...... 😂

Really miss to write my story :(

Its really long time i didnt write anything in this lovely blog. Hopefully... gonna back again as Blogger 😂
Since its almost 5 years... these a lot things already happen.. i try to facing evry problem with my own style and hopefully i keep on stronger then yesterday 😤

I gonna post some of my life story to be saved in this lovely blog.. stay tune with me...

Im back.... 😉

How to make happy

Are you feeling good and want to make someone else feel good too? Do you have a friend who is feeling sad? Here are a few ways to make someone happy!

1. Smile at them. Learn how to have a real smile, and care about people. Learn how to feel compassion when regarding someone.

2. Tell them a funny joke. Inside jokes work really well, especially if it is something only between the two of you. Learn how to make them laugh.

3. Find something funny online that you absolutely know they'll like and send it to them in an email.

4. Compliment them sincerely. Tell them something you love about them.

5. Invite them to do something fun with you. Go bowling, swimming, or something else fun and active.

6. Pick a dandelion or blade of grass and give it to them. Say things such as, “I got this especially for you!” or "I picked this weed just for you!" It is different and might make them laugh at your silliness, make them smile at your sweet nature.

What is stress?

Stress is a normal physical response to events that make you feel threatened or upset your balance in some way. When you sense danger – whether it’s real or imagined – the body's defenses kick into high gear in a rapid, automatic process known as the “fight-or-flight” reaction, or the stress response.

The stress response is the body’s way of protecting you. When working properly, it helps you stay focused, energetic, and alert. In emergency situations, stress can save your life – giving you extra strength to defend yourself, for example, or spurring you to slam on the brakes to avoid an accident.

The stress response also helps you rise to meet challenges. Stress is what keeps you on your toes during a presentation at work, sharpens your concentration when you’re attempting the game-winning free throw, or drives you to study for an exam when you'd rather be watching TV.

But beyond a certain point, stress stops being helpful and starts causing major damage to your health, your mood, your productivity, your relationships, and your quality of life.

Feel guilty?

Guilt is the emotional reaction people may feel if they believe they are directly or indirectly responsible for something bad happening. Feelings of guilt arise when you feel bad about your behavior and its consequences. This is different from the feeling of shame, because people who feel shame are evaluating themselves as bad—not just their actions. For example, if you feel bad for telling a lie, that would be a feeling of guilt. However, if you feel bad for being a liar, that would be a feeling of shame.

There are two main functions of guilt. It can serve as a way of punishing oneself for bad behavior, or it can also be a catalyst for changing whatever situation caused the feelings of guilt in the first place. Both of these functions can help people to have a better social conscience by caring about how their actions affect other people. In fact, people who don't feel guilt and remorse from time to time are considered mentally ill. However, guilt can also have harmful effects when it causes people to withdraw from others. Also, there are occasions where people feel irrational guilt for things that are beyond their control. It is a natural feeling, but it is a counterproductive one in this instance.

People may be prone to guilt if they around other people who use it as a means of manipulation. Because guilty people often feel the need to make up for the harm they have done, manipulative people can take advantage of that by guiding people towards conclusions that leave them feeling guilty. It may be entertaining on television when a character gains something by convincing someone else that the situation was his or her fault, but the resentment of being manipulated in real life is no laughing matter.
 

Remember that negative feelings like guilt have a place in all of us. Without them, the good feelings would have nothing to stand out against. The most important thing is to make negative feelings work for you instead of against you.

Be Happy

So happiness - isn't that the thing that all of us strive to find and keep? Nobody is happy all of the time, but some people are definitely more fulfilled than others. Studies on what makes people happy reveal that it doesn't have much to do with material goods or high achievement; it seems to whittle down to your outlook on life, and the quality of your relationships with the people around you.